Stardew Valley isn’t swimming in eligible marriage candidates, but it does have enough of a variety of personalities for anyone to be able to find at least one villager they want to marry.

A couple things to note about marriage in Stardew Valley:

Same-sex marriage is available You must reach 10 hearts with one of these marriage candidates to propose – reach 10 hearts by talking to them regularly and giving them gifts they like or love In order to propose, you must give them a bouquet and give them the Mermaid Pendant After you’ve been married, your spouse will help you around the farm as long as they’re happy

How to get the Mermaid Pendant

Sometime after your house is upgraded, a Mysterious Man will appear on the beach on a rainy day and offer you the Mermaid Pendant.

About this guide

The listings for each eligible bachelor and bachelorette below are fairly simple. Each mentions where they are most often found, as well as their likes and dislikes, loves and hates.

Some likes and dislikes are basically universal and apply to the vast majority of villagers. You can check out those lists at the top of my general villager likes and dislikes guide. “General” items (like leafy green vegetables, all types of milk) are italicized.

If you want to get on the other villagers’ good sides, take a gander at my Stardew Valley villager likes and dislikes guide.

Women

Abigail (Birthday: Fall 13th)

Abigail spends most of her time at work/home, Pierre’s General Store.

Loves

Amethyst Blackberry Cobbler Chocolate Cake Pufferfish Pumpkin Spicy Eel

Likes

Quartz

Dislikes

Eggs Fruit Sugar Vegetables Wheat Flour Wild Horseradish

Hates

Clay Joja Cola Stone

Haley (Birthday: Spring 14th)

Haley spends most of her time at the beach or at home, but spends a good amount of time at the fountain most days.

Loves

Coconut Fruit Salad Pink Cake Sunflower

Likes

Coconut Daffodil

Dislikes

Eggs Fruit Leafy green vegetables Milk Quartz

Hates

Clay Fish Stone Wild Horseradish

Leah (Birthday: Winter 23rd)

Leah spends a good amount of time at the bar, beach, and at home.

Loves

Poppyseed Muffin Salad Stir Fry Vegetable Stew Wine

Likes

Dandelion Eggs Fruit Leafy green vegetables Milk

Dislikes

Clay Gems Seaweed Stone

Hates

Bread Pizza

Maru (Birthday: Summer 10th)

Maru spends most of her time working as a nurse at the clinic.

Loves

Battery Pack Cheese Cauliflower Diamond Gold Bar Miner’s Treat Pepper Poppers Rhubarb Pie Strawberry

Likes

Copper Bar Iron Bar Processed goods Sweet Pea

Dislikes

Clay Fish

Hates

Stone

Penny (Birthday: Fall 2nd)

Penny can be hard to find of and doesn’t spend too much time at home. She seems to spend a good amount of time near the Community Center and Library.

Loves

Diamond Melon Poppy Red Plate Roots Platter Sandfish Tom Kha Soup

Likes

Dandelion Leek Milk Tulip

Dislikes

Clay Fish Quartz

Hates

Grape Hops Stone

Men

Alex (Birthday: Summer 13th)

Alex seems to spend a good amount of time in or around his house working out.

Loves

Complete Breakfast Salmon Dinner

Likes

Eggs

Dislikes

Clay Wild Horseradish

Hates

Poppy Quartz Stone

Elliot (Birthday: Fall 5th)

Elliott spends an exorbitant amount of time in his cabin by the beach, but does come out occasionally.

Loves

Crab Cakes Duck Feather Lobster Tom Kha Soup

Likes

Beer Chowder Fish Stew Fruit Octopus Squid Wine

Dislikes

Clay Daffodil Malachite Wild Horseradish

Hates

Amaranth Quartz Salmonberry Sea Cucumber Stone

Harvey (Birthday: Winter 14th)

Harvey spends most of his time at work in the clinic.

Loves

Coffee Lobster Bisque Pickles Super Meal Truffle Oil Wine

Likes

Daffodil Duck Egg Duck Feather Goat Milk Grape L. Goat Milk Parsnip Potato Purple Mushroom Red Mushroom

Dislikes

Clay Green Algae Hay Sap Stone White Algae

Hates

Coral Nautilus Shell Rainbow Shell Salmonberry Spice Berry Sugar

Sam (Birthday: Summer 17th)

Sam works at Joja Mart, but spends most of his time at home or walking about town.

Loves

Cactus Fruit Maple Bar Pizza

Likes

Egg (brown) Joja Cola

Dislikes

Clay Daffodil Hay Leafy green vegetables Quartz Seaweed

Hates

Stone

Sebastian (Birthday: winter 10th)

Sebastian spends most of his time at home in his room.

Loves

Fire Quartz Frozen Tear Pumpkin Soup Sashimi

Likes

Coffee Friend Calamari Pumpkin Quartz Salad Spaghetti

Dislikes

Daffodil Leafy green vegetables

Hates

Clay Complete Breakfast Farmer’s Lunch Fried Egg Omelet Stone


That wraps up our Stardew Valley guide on how to get married. Be sure to stay tuned to GameSkinny for more Stardew Valley guides.